Many clients have used these kinds of expressions with me when they talk about how they visualize the love of their lives: “I want someone who will treat me like a queen.” “I am looking for a man who will sweep me off my feet.” “I am still waiting for…
If you change yourself to please another, you are sure to end up unhappy. Do you remember that movie with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere ,”The Runaway Bride”? In that movie, Julia’s character would always change herself to suit the current boyfriend. The boyfriend then became a fiance. She always…
Several years ago a professional woman, Thalia (not her real name), asked me to help her Feng Shui her place so that she could find love. Her biggest problem was, she admitted, that she “dated down.” She went out with guys that were less successful and less affluent than she…
In a previous post I talked about how the accumulated tension in a love relationships always looks for an outlet, and how this outlet can be healthy, or unhealthy. In this post I am going to share with you what are some features in a couple’s home that alert me…
Feng Shui is one of the most effective tools to “diagnose” increasing stress in a love relationship. It also offers easy to implement ways to improve a relationship by focusing in the environment where that relationship develops (usually the master bedroom). Over a decade of assisting couples with relationship issues…
Most of my single clients who struggle or have struggled with finding love share one characteristic in common: attachment to childhood or adolescent views of love, instead of accepting the sometimes gritty reality of true love relationships. Any symbols that a woman is clinging to childhood and has not matured…
Some weeks ago I wrote an article on How to Buy Feng-Shui-Correct Clothes. When I shared the article with one of my single friends she joked, “I wonder if you could do the same with guys.” We had fun coming up with funny ways to compare “guy shopping” to clothes…
Without a high sense of self worth, it becomes very difficult to find love that lasts. During a trip abroad I did a consultation for a woman in her late thirties who, after being divorced for a few years, had decided she wanted to find a new love. When I…
